I love the book when I first time read it a while ago. I hope the summary of her proposal is helpful to you as well! :)
Meg Jay ＜＜The Defining Decade＞＞ 20世代，你的人生是不是卡住了：你以為時間還很多，但有些決定不能拖
1. Get The Best Job You Can Get 堅持選擇最佳的工作
A lot of people think it’s necessary to start with a job they don’t like and wait for their chances. Actually, getting the best job you can get is important—The experience will become the (1)bargaining chip of your future. Don’t waste time waiting.
Some young adults decide to stay at home or be part-time workers because they think they are “opening for options”, but putting the choice (2)up in the air results in a thin resume.
3. It's Going To Take Time to Get Good At Your Job 當菜鳥是必經過程
Young people can’t wait to get everything on track, but it usually takes years to master a job. What you can learn when you still have the chance making mistakes is the (3)bottom line at the beginning of your career.
Educate yourself doesn’t mean you should (C)retrieve your textbooks and go back to college. Try to gather knowledge in work and daily life. You can educate yourself by reading, traveling or even working.
9. Be a Great Friend to a Very Small Number of People 縮小交友圈，建立真關係
Stop making hundreds of friends on Facebook but have none in the real life. Know the meaning of friendship. You can only have a few friends as long as you are true friends in life.